Have you ever noticed when you shop at Total Wine or a similar wine store, pushing your cart with several bottles, and a staff member comes over, smiling amicably, saying something like, “I see you like __________ wine.” “Have you ever tried _______?” (usually a little more expensive than your bottle, but “highly recommended).” Despite the obvious profit-motivated interchange, the best way to gauge what wine a consumer would like is to check out what they are drinking (or buying). For yourself, of course, a tasting or flight is even better, when feasible.
I am often asked by friends , “I want to buy a good bottle of wine for a great friend. What would you recommend?” I always respond with a few questions before I can offer any suggestions.
Here are my typical questions:
- Does he/she like dry or sweet wines?
- Does he/she like red or white or Rose wines?
- Does he/she like oaked or unoaked wines?
- Does he/she like light or more full-bodied wines?
- If they have trouble answering some or all of those questions, I’ll ask, “Are there any wines you have seen them enjoy when you get together?”
- What is a winery he/she likes? Knowing the name of the winery or winemaker can be a huge help. For instance, in my two recommendations below, they are both excellent wineries and I have enjoyed numerous wines from both of them, so I am very comfortable in trying something new.
- What price range were you considering?
One could ask a few more questions, but you don’t need to get too deep in the weeds. If you can ask yourself a few of these questions first you will make a good choice. If it is a gift for yourself, maybe take a photo of a bottle you like (both sides) that may tell you more about the wine. You can also share that information or photo to the wine store clerk. These questions and actions will be more helpful than remembering that the bottle had a cute puppy on the label.
Here are a few wines I have enjoyed recently, with a few notes that could help you with a gift idea for a friend (or yourself). If you like dry reds, I think you would like these two. The first is still available, though the second may only be available as a “library wine.” The good news for that is the 2022 Europa IV is available and may even be a little better!
- Hawk Haven Vineyards 2022 Reserve Cabernet Sauvignon-An excellent vintage and great Cab with medium plus body with plum and hints of cocoa and coffee on the palate.
- Amalthea Cellars 2018 Europa IV-One of their classic Legends Edition, this one is 66% Cab Franc and 34% Merlot. It is medium plus bodied Bordeaux-style, smooth red blend, which has cellared very well.
Coming Attractions
- Auburn Road Vineyards Fall ’26
- Cedar Rose Vineyard Fall ’26
- Laurita Winery Fall ’26
- Beneduce Vineyards Fall ’26
- Working Dog Winery Fall ’26
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